The Earth is covered in corpses. We breathe the air the dead exude, eat the food they nourished with their decay, pour their remains into our cars, wear them and sleep on them. And then we call them scary without even noticing that they are present in every single thing of our lives. We live because of the dead.
There are a ton of reasons an artist might give you a refund when you don’t want one. They might have health problems and are unable to complete your art. They might have time constraints, or be moving to another career. Sometimes, a client’s behavior makes an artist not want to work with them. And you know what? We get to decide if that’s a stress we want to take on or remove from our lives. There is NO legal obligation to put up with poor behavior from a client, because
being a stress factor due to behavior (even if polite), or being a jerk
is not a protected class.
If your behavior leads an artist to want to give you your money back
without completing your art, they are putting up a boundary. They
aren’t under any obligation to teach you what you did wrong, because
your emotional growth is not the responsibility of others. The only
thing you need to do is respect that boundary.
Was digging through my blog for something else and remembered this post. Always a good reminder. If an artist wants to give you your money back, please accept it! We’re trying out best to be fair to everyone, including ourselves!
I remember some YouTuber tweeting like “TV shows are too political these days old shows like Fresh Prince didn’t have all this sjw bullshit” and like the first episode will and uncle phil talk very sternly about malcom x
If anything, sitcom shows even from Disney esp if they're black were bold in your face political about societal issues
